
So I have tapped in to this momentum to excel and my responsibilities, in the best way possible, keep piling up. I’m getting up at five am every day to teach and I go back to bed around ten pm after a long day of classes, home duties, writing, reading, and playing around. Because of my busy schedule I have had to be quite deliberate about arranging time for the things that I need to do in order to be fulfilled and charged up for all those who are counting on me. There is not a lot of wiggle room I might add…
This has got me thinking about how can I feel like I have some breathing room in spite of all the goings on of the day. In fact, I spoke to my friend Colleen about this two weeks or so ago and she told me that she was reading a book on the topic of liberation and discipline. If I remember correctly these are two points of focus in Miltons’ Paradise Lost.
Let’s look at the definitions according to Merriam Webster:
Discipline-1: punishment 2 : instruction 3: a field of study 4: training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character 5 a: control gained by enforcing obedience or order b: orderly or prescribed conduct or pattern of behavior c: self- control 6: a rule or system of rules governing conduct or activity.
Liberty-1: the quality or state of being free: a: the power to do as one pleases b: freedom from physical restraint c: freedom from arbitrary or despotic control d: the positive enjoyment of various social, political, or economic rights and privileges e: the power of choice 2 a: a right or immunity enjoyed by prescription or by grant : privilege b: permission especially to go freely within specified limits 3: an action going beyond normal limits: as a: a breach of etiquette or propriety : familiarity b: risk,chance <took foolish liberties with his health> c: a violation of rules or a deviation from standard practice d: a distortion of fact 4: a short authorized absence from naval duty usually for less than 48 hours.
As themes, these two have the connotation of being opposites, yet I find that they have some pretty powerful applications when seen as complementary or used in tandem with each other. In a yoga practice they can show up as the surrender to the bind in a posture, the freedom of the breath as you move through the primary series, the liberation that occurs when one heads into savasana. Examples from life include dancing while I vacuum, singing at the top of my lungs as I do the dishes, the simple expression of my wardrobe and music choices as I prepare my classes.
For many people there is a discipline that comes along with their jobs. My friend Colleen is an Architect and apparently in her field she is not expected to peak until she is around sixty! I mean, that is a long row to hoe my friends. The same can be said for any number of occupations; motherhood, dance, law, artist, secretary, firefighter, teacher, and banker. Everyone has a set of rules, a set of tools to use, within their professions. I think part of the quest is to figure out how to make room for self expression. How to feel a sense of wonder and excitement about the possibilities for the future in spite of it looking like each day will continue to just run into the very next.
What a revelation! How can we cultivate a sense of liberation in our daily wanderings and at the same time be absolutely focused on the tasks at hand?
It reminds me of great jazz. I used to go to jam sessions in the city and I would hear the most amazing examples of this very idea. Having mastered the techniques of their instruments each musician was able to let go of the rules and play within a very loose boundary that all involved would respect. For minutes or hours I would hear the sax, the base, the snare, and the vocals of men and women who would show quite clearly that freedom of expression is alive and well within the framework of the style of sound they all choose to study. The hours and hours of dedication beforehand made it possible to throw caution into the wind and strive for a connection with the universal creativity. As a spectator I could here, and feel, the shift in the energy of the room. That moment when you are all involved in something magical…
So for me, and for you, we must strive to find our own liberation within the discipline of our daily lives. Try breathing with intention, explore techniques, practice patience, and perhaps surrender to the greater framework of your duties. Eventually I believe we will all experience that same sense of magic that the jazz masters seem to delve into with abandon.
Try it out. Let go of your judgements and expectations and try and sit comfortably in the dynamic life you have created. Surrender a bit to the natural flow and see if with this new perspective you may learn new ways to be free. Great shifts can occur. The broadshtrokes are already laid before you and I am betting that it is in the details that you will begin to ignite and shine.
Bless you on your journey-







Seth Godin has some great ideas.